BDSM or bondage sex became super popular in the pop-culture when it first started. This type of dangerous, erotic and sexy foreplay became the ultimate sexual fantasy of many people.With new interests and demands, there have been loads of sexual BDSM toys invented to make things even more interesting. A classic sex toy in all those have always been the floggers/whips.When the term bondage comes up, it is usually referred to as sensual spanking. It does not matter whether you want to be a dominant or a submissive, a flogger/whip has always piqued the curiosity.Spanking with bare hands does improves sexual drive and creates fun, but, It has been proved that spanking with sex props improves foreplay much more deeply.
The main role of a whip is to spank a person. There are many different number of tools that can be used for spanking. For beginners, using bare hands is the perfect tool for spanking. If you've never been engaged in this type of foreplay before, and want to bring whips and sex toys in play, we strongly advise you do some practicing before hand.
Floggers are the most commonly used sex whips. These are the leather whips that you see in most of the movies. If you're a complete beginner, sex floggers are the perfect tool for you to use in bed. These smackers are mostly made of leather or rubber. The tendrils on this whip can also be used to tickle the skin.
There are many different patterns in these sex crops. These crops have usually a small handle and a flexible long spine with many different types of spanking tips.
A bull whip is what is an actual whip. They are usually made in a knotted style which gives a much easier grip. A basic size of a bull whip is 3 feet but it can be available in many different sizes. It goes thinner at the tip while also changing its material that makes that perfect cracking noise when used.
Spank paddles are the small leather toys with a handle and slightly thinner paddle tip to increase the sex stimulation. These leather whips or spank paddles are extremely useful in treating frigidity, extreme loss of orgasm and effectively improves sexual function.
When all sorts of natural tools such as hands, tongue, teeth, etc, fail to improve your partner's mood, these feather ticklers can be used for light sensory titillation. These might look super cute with dozens of soft faux feathers bound together at the very top of the stem. But these can feel extremely amazing when used. However, the stem on these ticklers can be either thick or very thin, also can be short or long or thick and thin.
Using whips in sexual play is also called as impact play in the BDSM community. There are various types of sex whips, floggers, ticklers, etc available. It all depends on ones liking.The main rule of bondage foreplay is to communicate. Engaging positively before, during and after this impact play is very crucial. It is safe for a beginner to only use whips on body parts that are protected by body fat and muscle such as buttocks and thighs.If the person is completely new to this type of sexual play. It is safe and advisable to practice whipping on a pillow and then going slow on your sex partner.
Light strokes of hitting on the butt should be applied to give just enough pain and pleasure to turn your partner on, without making any deeper damage to the body.Using a bdsm whip or a flogger on gentle parts, spine and back needs further knowledge and precautions. To make sure the submissive is never hit hard on gentle organs such as kidneys and vagina. But if you're a beginner and want to apply a little force when whipping, you should always stick to the bottom.